From AskMefi, about Dealing with Death. Inspired by [EducateDeviate] aka Ti.

Life can be found only in the present moment. The past is gone, the future is not yet here, and if we do not go back to ourselves in the present moment, we cannot be in touch with life.

Also, something I learnt from Tuesdays with Morrie (paraphrased): If you must feel sorry for yourself, feel angry, feel anything negative, do it for a certain amount of time, then…

LET. IT. GO.

How you let it go is up to you, but it’s not really worth the time, effort and emotional strength to hold on to the distrust and pain.