Crossposted to LJ because I linked to Ezel’s comic here. Yes, life is all about moving on… or at least growing up.
Musings begin here.
Love isn’t static. It’s not meant to be static, because like everything around us, it changes.
The only constant, they say, is change.
Likewise with love.
Was thinking back on a question someone asked me, “Why do you love them?” and I realised that my answers keep changing. Each time I’m confronted by that phrase, I ask myself, what is it that I see in them that makes me love them?
And I realise that my answer is always different, because when you love someone and you’re in a relationship with them, you keep discovering new things about them, and that can either make you fall in love with them more or sour your love.
So if someone asks you why you’re in love with this/that person, don’t be afraid if your answer’s not the same as your first. After all, as humans, we do get bored of the same old but that doesn’t mean we get bored of the person.
You should only start worrying if you can’t find a single redeeming quality of that person in your eyes. 😛
Each day, I’m discovering new things. About myself, about him, about those around us. Life’s a never-ending learning process, and the only thing we can do is to keep walking on and holding on.